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[playing tango]

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[Anne-Sophie] I’m a chef.
I mean, I don’t really attach
an importance to the fact uh...

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woman or male chef.
We are all chefs.

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That’s really the problem
to enhance women chefs. That
means we categorize them.

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[Angela] Yeah, I remember
growing up and going back
and crying and my mom goes:

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“Why are you going back?”
I said: “I just need
to do a year, Mom.

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Once I’ve done a year,
then that’s it. That opens
every door to me.

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I’ve proved myself.”
And, you know, and I did.

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[Amanda] I always say that I
wasn’t really ever harassed
because I was a woman,

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I was just harassed ‘cause I was
a human and chefs are like,
equal opportunity assholes.

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They’ll harass anybody they
see who’s weaker than them.

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[Ivy] There’s no time if you’re
slammed on a Friday night to say

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“I’m sorry I called you
a fucking whore.
Shut the fuck up.

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Take the dick out of your ass
and get this shit done.”

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[Suzanne] When I walk in,
I’m gonna respect you,

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but I’m gonna command
the respect back.

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And once we kinda are on the
same page, then we’re good.

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[playing tango]

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[seagulls cawing]

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[jazz music]

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[Victoria]
Pick up squash, please?
It’s gonna be for Table 21.

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- Angel? Can you help me
with the uh... tempura?
- [Angel] Yeah.

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[Victoria]
Uh... And guys? Pass me
the two terrines right now,

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so I can put them on a plate,
OK? So they can temper.

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Women have been cooking forever.
Women have been
the one that cooked

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for the chef or the man
that became a chef.

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Usually it’s like, “Oh, my mom
used to cook this for me.”

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And I was like,
"OK so women have been
cooking all this time,

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but you can’t make it to
the professional side?"

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That is the irony of this,
you know what I mean?

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It’s not like you always recall
your dad cooking for you.

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- Burger medium is three.
- Burger medium, three.

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- Bar 4 is summer squash, no uni.
- Bar 4 is summer squash, no uni.

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I’m not sure whether
things have improved for women
that much in the kitchen.

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The fight and the struggle
and the complaints are still
the same.

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We are a little bit more like
the chervil on the salad.

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We are some kind of garnish
because it looks good.

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You know? Like people need to
see that you’re promoting women.

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OK, Victor. You’re going
tartare, yes?

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I’m from Chile.
Santiago, Chile.

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My mom raised me
to believe I could do
whatever I wanted to do.

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Probably that was her mistake.

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- Uh... Matteo, have you
touched base with table 11?
- Not yet.

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Because his order fired
the wrong food and also
they were waiting, OK?

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- I spoke with him.
- So can someone
tell me what’s going on?

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Uh... He wants his cod.

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- Great. He’s a pescatarian,
but we ordered duck. OK.
- [cook] Yeah.

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- He did not order duck.
- Huh?

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-He didn’t order the duck.
-That’s what I’m saying.
Dan ordered a duck.

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- Yes.
- Anyways, seat 1,
seat 2 is bok choy.

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Seat 1, seat 2 is squash.
Seat 3, seat 4 carpaccio.

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- Go all the way on 23.
- [cook] 23.

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Vito, you have the...
the face of death. This is
a restaurant. Shit happens, OK?

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Chumley’s was first
opened in 1922.

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You know, Hemingway and all
these famous writers would come
here and basically hang out.

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[Victoria] Ordering duck.
Order fire carpaccio, tartare.

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My dream is to have
my own restaurant

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and express myself with
more freedom than I have here.

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Like a blank canvas
for me to paint.

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It’s how do I express
myself on a plate.

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[Amanda] I’m behind you.

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Can I get the three
carrots on 305, please?

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Dirt Candy is an all-vegetable
restaurant in Manhattan
on the Lower East Side.

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[waiter] Alright, guys. OK, so
this is the Brussels sprout
tacos. Be careful...

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[Amanda] What we do here is
we celebrate vegetables.

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There’s restaurants that are
vegetable forward, but
they still serve a little meat,

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but we are the only ones who
have taken huge leap of faith
and said:

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“Just come to the restaurant
for the vegetables.”

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With the fennels on the
bottom layer, we have
the carta di musica,

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which is really just
fancy Italian for cracker.

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Then we have some caramelized
yogurt, caramelized fennel,

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ginger cream, cherry purée,
dehydrated...

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I think you have too much butter
and not enough salt.

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- Not enough salt,
too much butter?
- In this.

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This is fine. A little bit
more salt would be fine.

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Only because you’re compensating
for the vegetables.

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Overcooked.
Too salty.

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You could have tried
to be better on camera.

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-Uhm... Wait, OK.
My question was...
-Just say “Yes, Chef.”

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- Yes, Chef.
- Yes.

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I’m proud to be a woman chef.

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There’s a huge number of
women chefs cooking

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and we just don’t
talk about them.

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And yet somehow people still
think they’re actually

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aren’t a lot of
female chefs or women chefs

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because they’re not really
the ones written about.

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And they’re not
the important ones.

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And so that’s the uphill battle.

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If you don’t keep
talking about us,

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then we’re not
gonna have a place.

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We’re gonna keep
getting pushed aside.

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You can start with this.
Big table. Just put it
down in the middle.

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My big issue with the industry
is in the media.

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There’s sort of been
this refusal to celebrate
female chefs.

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You see this
over and over again on the...

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the big awards and the best
new chefs list,
best new restaurants.

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They tend to be male chefs.

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It’s always like,
one woman and nine men
on a cover.

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The reason women don’t have
those kinds of restaurants
is because

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they tend to open more
mom-and-pop restaurants

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because they’re only able
to get a little bit of money.

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Without that financial backing,
it’s really hard to get
on those covers.

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It’s hard to win those awards

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and so this cycle just
goes and goes and goes

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and women keep getting left out
of this conversation.

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[Anita] That’s really
the old boys’ club.

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If you’re not white,
if you’re not straight, if...

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you know, you don’t
really fit into a uhm...

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a gender norm,
of course you’re angry.

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And the media really
likes to celebrate
young, tough dudes

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with a lot of like, tattoos.

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What’s cool is,
“Hey, look at the giant tattoo

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I got to cover
the giant scar I had.”

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[Charlotte] Why do I think all
the guys get the attention?

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'Cause they probably want it
more than we do.

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“Look at me, look at me,
look at me.
The big swingin' dick scenario.

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Like I’m large and in charge
and I’m fuckin’ fabulous
and I’m killing the game.”

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I remember when
Kitchen Confidentialcame out.

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I did read it in the first year
of college and I found it
very exciting

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because it sounded like a...
a... a ride. Like a wild ride.

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You know, everyone’s partying,
they’re living in these crazy
houses together

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in the middle of L.A. or
New York and making it happen

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and all the strife and struggle.
But the strife and struggle
sounded super sexy.

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They’re badasses. They’re party
animals. They’re sleeping
with everybody.

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They’re doing tons of drugs and
they’re getting away with it.

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It adds a touch of melodrama
to our industry that
we eat like crazy.

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[classical string music]

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[Anita] There’s a saying
that men cook for glory
and women for love.

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And if we do, it’s because of
how we were raised and of that
social construct.

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But as a chef, you really wanna
be judged on your work,
you know?

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Your gender really has
nothing to do with it.

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Order in VIP a pierogi
and a tartare.

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I’ve been running this
restaurant 17 years.

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I mean, on some level it was
a compulsion. I felt compelled
to do this.

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We’ve been bombarded
by images of

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what it means to be female
and what it means to be male.

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You know, growing up
in the Midwest was
difficult for me.

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I consider myself
gender non-conforming.

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I didn’t like wearing dresses.
You know, I was a tomboy.

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I came from a very
food-obsessed family,

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and, you know, on some level
it was sort of the best part
of my childhood.

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So it’s interesting that I’ve...
I’ve turned that into a life.

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I got three foie's
in the window.

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[Amanda] Anita Lo is one of
the most amazing chefs
in this country.

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You know, Annisa was this really
well-respected restaurant
in the city.

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It had at one point
Michelin stars.

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It had three stars
from the New York Times

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and she defined a certain
place for female chefs
in this industry.

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[Victoria] The first time that I
heard about Anita Lo at Annisa
was through my ex-father-in-law.

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He was always trying to get
me to come to New York

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because it’s like, “You see?
A woman can run a kitchen.

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A woman can have a restaurant.
You should come to New York.”

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And I was like, “OK, it sounds
amazing, but she is like,

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the one.”You know? It’s like
one woman that is running
a restaurant.

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I think it would have been
really helpful, you know,
to have a role model.

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You know, I’d never worked
for a female chef.

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Uhm... There weren’t
a lot of them out there,

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especially in fine dining,
which was what I wanted to do.

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There weren’t, you know,
people of color or gay people.

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So, I felt a deep responsibility
to be a mentor.

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You know, I think that’s
probably important for
some young women

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to see that it’s possible, yeah.

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[Suzanne] And Em, as soon as you
can, can you pick up for
Booth 1, please?

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Alright, Justin. We got a soca,
a burger and a lamb.

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[cook] Fritter, squash.

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One burger going to 15.
Other burger going to table 13.

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- Let’s get that mac
up right now.
- Yes.

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- Let’s get that rice right now
inside of that pan.
- Yes, Chef. Got it.

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I’m not gonna tell you
how to run your kitchen.

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I’m not gonna tell you about
what kitchens are better
than other kitchens,

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but I’m gonna tell you
how I run my kitchen.

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Working in the industry for
10 years before opening
this restaurant, I realized that

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there were lots of voids in
the kitchens that I worked in.

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And that was
not seeing enough women.

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Order up, Chef. Mac.

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- Yup. Going to table... Booth 1.
- Order up.

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I thought, “Wow. Wouldn’t it be
awesome if we could create

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a space that they can come
and gain some skill sets.

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We can run the kitchen,
dominate the kitchen in
a very male-dominated industry.

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- May I have that
cornbread, please?
- Yup. Cutting it right now.

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[Suzanne] Hands, please?
One soca going to table 14.

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I’ve been operating
this restaurant for
about three years.

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Myself and my husband, Johnnie.

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Myles is here quite regularly.
He knows the staff.

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When we opened the restaurant,
friends would come and

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take him on a stroll in the
neighborhood if he was crying.

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Customers would take him
if I was on the line.

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He was on my back, strapped
to my back when I was cooking.

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- What colors today?
- We’re a small restaurant,
like any mom and pop.

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'Cause that’s really at the
end of the day what we are.

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[Johnnie]
That’s the one? Yeah.

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[Suzanne] It’s a very
personal space.

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Can you pick up this mac and
cheese going to booth 1, please?
Thank you.

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Yeah, being a woman of color,
I’m not gonna be,

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you know, that stereotype
that you expect me to be.

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The first thing my father
said is: “No daughter of mine

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is gonna go and work for some
white person in their kitchen
and cook their food.

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I don’t want that for you.
I didn’t do that.

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I don’t want you to be
working as someone’s slave.”

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You look at the images and the
history of the mammy characters.

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The nannies that, you know,
are always kept in the back
that prepare the food,

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take care of the children and
the roles of black women and
what we’ve been known for.

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You know, I’m part American.
I’m... I’m part Canadian.

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I’m dual citizen.
So it’s a part of my history

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and it’s also a part of
the history of what I know
of diners

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and the sit-in movement
in the Deep South.

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You know, when I think about
what my life would’ve been like
if I was,

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you know, living in, say,
the South in the United States

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in the 1950s opening up
a restaurant as a black woman
with a white husband?

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This shit would not happen.

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I often get asked to do
pastries and I’m like...

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Well, sometimes I get asked
to do pastries or desserts
for events and I say:

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“Do I look like a pastry chef?
I’m the fish girl."

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I’ve been a chef for
approximately 12 years.

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And it’s been about a year and a
half, two years, since I haven’t

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been in a traditional
restaurant environment.

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When someone says:
“You’re a woman chef",
I don’t really hear that.

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I just hear ‘chef’.
Chef is a chef is a chef.

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I left the industry to find
a way to make my own company.

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I wanted to fund it myself,
build it myself and make it
happen on my own.

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I was more emotionally
burnt out, I think,
than... than physically.

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I was tired of being the
money maker for somebody else.

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Everybody’s just trying to make
a buck. No one really cares
as much as they used to.

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Fuck you.
I’m out.

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So basically,
I’m a non-traditional chef.

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I’ve always wanted
to own my own restaurant,

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but I don’t have
half a million dollars.

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Where am I even gonna
think about getting that?

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In the meantime, what do I do?

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[jazzy music]

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[Angela] I never thought
that cooking would explode
the way it has.

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Chefs are on TV. Chefs have
become these superstars.

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People suddenly look at cooking
and restaurants as sexy.

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You know, 30, 40 years ago,
everyone used to think

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you only wanted to be a chef
because you were thick.

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- Shut the fuck up.
- [cook] Yes, Chef.

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- One spaghetti of lobster.
- Yes, Chef.

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- One scallops.
- Yes, Chef.

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Now, would you like me
to fuckin’

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- email that to your Blackberry?
- No, Chef.

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- Move your ass.
- Yes, Chef.

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[Angela] New order. One rabbit
du jour, one crab du jour.

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- Follow one cod, one rump du
jour, ça marche.
- [cooks] Oui.

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[kitchen noises]

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[Angela] No oil on top of this.
Service, please.
Let’s go. Table 16.

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[Oscar] One veg, two coming?

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[Angela] I’ve been a chef
probably for the last 30 years.

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My main mentor was
Gordon Ramsay.

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You know, I started with him
uhm... probably when I was
about 23, 24,

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and then worked for Gordon
for about 17 years
in various restaurants.

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Right. How long, guys?

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- 10 seconds on the
rabbit pappardelle.
- Yeah.

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When I started working
they had... all had a bet.

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They all said you know, give...
she’ll do two days, two weeks,
two months, whatever.

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'Cause there hadn’t been a woman
who had worked there for
a full year anyway

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and they just didn’t think
anyone would last.

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I mean, it was nuts and you
know, I constantly... I used to
look at my week and think,

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God, I haven’t had a bollocking,
I haven’t been shouted at
and I’d then sort of get to

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Thursday and then suddenly
it would happen and I’d be like,
“Oh my God. Here we go.”

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And my aim was to always to try
and get to Saturday without
a bollocking.

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And eventually you did,
‘cause you got better.

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[Angela] Ça marche. One eel,
one egg truffle, to follow two
egg truffle.

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How long for the ham?

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[Angela] I used to just
think Gordon was mad

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when he used to
kick off and stuff.

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I just don’t see the point.

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There’s times where I’ve got
so angry and, you know,

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and I can feel my face getting
red and my neck and stuff

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and then I’m like “Oh, my God.”
And then you’re so stressed
for the next hour.

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It’s not worth it.

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Service. Oh, you’re there.

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Where’s the other one?
We need two.

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Let’s go, please.
You’re going to

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table 14, yeah?

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[Angela] My first Michelin star
was at The Connaught Hotel.

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We opened at The Connaught after
there had been a hundred years
of male chefs.

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You know, and there was uproar.
People were so...

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There were some people that
hated the fact I’d gone
in there.

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I mean, I had this amazing
receptionist at the time, Lydia,

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and uhm... this guy kept coming
and every time he came
he moaned and complained.

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And he was an old regular
that came for years

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and he rang up and he said:
“Is she still there?”,
talking about me.

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Lydia goes: “Yeah, yeah.
Angela’s still the chef.”

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“Oh, well I’ll have a table” and
then what I loved about Lydia,
she goes:

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“Why do you want a table?
You don’t like it here.

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You like The Connaught, but you
don’t like the fact we’re here.

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You don’t like Angela, so why
do you want to come and
upset yourself?"

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You know, and I thought,
“Brilliant!”

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Where we’re sitting
now is Murano.

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So, Gordon and I opened
Murano in 2008

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and then uhm... 2011 I bought
Gordon out of our partnership
and now I’m my own boss.

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Right. Service, please.

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[Angela] But the amount of
people that will go,

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“God, it’s calm. Isn’t it?" And,

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“Why aren’t you shouting
and swearing?”

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As if that’s what they expect
and I go, “We don’t do that.”

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And you know... And people will
go: “Oh, go on, shout at them”,

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you know, and it's like,
“What do you want?”

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Right. Let’s get plates out,
Martina. How long on that
guinea fowl cod?

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[Angela] That doesn’t mean to
say that I’m not direct in my
approach when things go wrong.

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Why is the food going cold?
Why is the food not hot
at the table?

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Why did they wait?
You know, come on.

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But I don’t need to swear
and shout at them

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to get those answers.

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Let’s go. Table 5. Lovely.

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[rhythmic music]

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[Ivy] A kitchen is not exactly
the most hospitable place
for a woman

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or for anybody who has
any kind of thoughts
about equal rights

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or you know, fair treatment.

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It’s not a place for
the faint of heart.

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Hello there. Welcome to
86'd Mondays. I’m your host,
Ivy Knight, and

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tonight is the first
ever preserved fish battle.

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[Ivy] I’ve been hosting events
for eight years
at the Drake Hotel.

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- So take a station over
there. That’s fine.
- [man] OK.

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I was a cook for 10 years.

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At the 5 year mark,
I realized I didn’t have
the proper temperament

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to be a head chef
and I wanted to write.

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So I spent the next 5 years
in kitchens sort of working
towards getting out of them.

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The thing that I rallied against
was how much we were
exploited as cooks

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and how much work was expected
of us for so little pay.

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Yeah, I’ll bring out
two spoons. The spaghetti
that was taking me a long time.

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[Amanda]
It is a tough place to work, and
I think because you’re cooking,

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you’re playing with fire,
things go wrong a lot and fast.

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Please. Please. One tower.
Just figure out something.

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Any kind of pockys.
Anything. I don’t care.

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I just need the tower.
No, just give me anything.

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Five minutes on 15.

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[Charlotte] It’s a very
high-stress environment.
Hot temperatures.

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Like, you know, you’re standing
in front of a 400, 500 degree
oven for hours

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in the middle of summer
with no air conditioning.

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You’re frustrated, exhausted.

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And the environment is so
volatile that the worst of
people can come out.

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[Victoria] What do you need?
Let’s not do this.
-Nothing.

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-What is it that you need?
What does he need?
-Nothing.

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Since you screwed up already,
I really don’t wanna

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know anything else, OK?
Thank you.

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My usual schedule is like 6 days
a week, 12 to 14 hours a day.

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I think pressure
sometimes can get to you.

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And if you have an unbalanced
life, you’re gonna be
an unbalanced human being.

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That is obvious that we’re not
the most balanced bunch,
you know what I mean?

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After that bok choy,
give me a tartare lonely, OK?

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[Ivy] If you can’t keep up,
get the fuck out.

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00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:02,150
There’s no time for thoughtful
chats about beet rude.

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00:24:02,192 --> 00:24:04,652
Fuck off.
Just get it done.

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00:24:05,153 --> 00:24:08,740
So unfortunately,
these can’t go out.
It’s too late.

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00:24:10,909 --> 00:24:13,387
I’m sorry, but they have to
come together. You guys
have to count.

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It’s one mini vegan,
two regulars,
all at the same time.

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I can’t send out to one half of
the table some food and not
the other half.

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00:24:22,962 --> 00:24:26,150
You know, people say the oil,
the knives, I mean... You know,
people exaggerate that.

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They think everyone’s walking
around with a knife
and just ready to stab.

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00:24:28,593 --> 00:24:32,931
I mean, you know,
I... You know, it’s hard but
Christ alive, we’re not...

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00:24:32,972 --> 00:24:36,142
you know, it’s not like that.
I mean, at least not in any
kitchen I’ve worked in.

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00:24:37,477 --> 00:24:40,397
- Hi, Ivy!
- Hi. So we’re gonna start
in like, four minutes.

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00:24:40,438 --> 00:24:41,898
I’m ready to rock and roll.

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00:24:41,940 --> 00:24:43,316
OK, here’s how it’s gonna go.

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The culture is similar to

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frat boy culture
or hazing culture.

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The newest cooks are the ones
who are picked on,

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and as you fight your way up
through the ranks,

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then eventually when you’re
in power you just repeat
the same cycle of abuse.

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They break you down
to build you back up.

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Or they continue to break you
down to keep you down,
so you know your position.

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00:25:10,885 --> 00:25:14,806
- One bread pudding.
- Bread pudding.

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00:25:14,848 --> 00:25:17,142
- Livers are ready, yeah?
- Got it. Yeah.

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00:25:17,183 --> 00:25:21,021
I didn’t come from that.
I chose not to put myself
in that circumstance

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and so why would I do
that in my own kitchen?

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- Still hot?
- Yup.

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- Just came out.
- Yeah. Alright.

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I don’t think...
I could be wrong,

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but I don’t think that in
the corporate world 9 to 5,

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that it’s typical for a guy
to throw a woman over...

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over a table and to pretend to,
like, simulate fucking her
from behind,

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but that happens all the time.
Or it happened to me
all the time.

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I wasn’t crying and calling up
a rape counselor because

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it was part of the culture.

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I basically turned into
a little shithead guy.

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00:26:01,144 --> 00:26:03,772
I just wanted to be accepted
and part of the team.

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[Anita]
I did feel like I had
to be one of the boys.

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But on some level I also grew up
feeling like I wasn’t
one of the girls, so...

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You know, I certainly...
You know, I was never
the femmy girl.

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00:26:26,002 --> 00:26:31,299
So, I was already such
an otherthat I’m so used
to not being...

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part of... any situation that...

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00:26:35,303 --> 00:26:38,807
you know, by the time I got to
the kitchen, I was just an...
it was just old hat.

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[Charlotte] “Have you ever been
assaulted? Have you ever been
sexually harassed?”

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I’m like “Yeah, of course. It’s
sort of a part of the language
of the kitchen.”

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00:26:49,109 --> 00:26:51,861
When I had my first chef
position, I was like

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“I’m gonna hire only 18 year old
boys. They’re gonna do all
the heavy lifting.

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00:26:55,657 --> 00:26:58,052
I’m gonna make them like, put
that down, pick it up, put it...

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00:26:58,076 --> 00:27:01,579
You know, I was...
That was my mentality
when I first... I was 23.

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[Charlotte] Oil and vinegar
shrimp and smoked shrimp
with kimchi. Enjoy.

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00:27:05,583 --> 00:27:07,436
[Charlotte] I’m just gonna hire
hot guys to do
all my work for me.

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00:27:07,460 --> 00:27:09,129
And I’m just gonna be
like this, you know.

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00:27:09,170 --> 00:27:12,048
I’m gonna have a...
a harem of young men.

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00:27:13,633 --> 00:27:18,346
I developed a bit of
a language where I was
verbally harassing people.

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00:27:18,388 --> 00:27:23,727
Very flirty, very open
and very like, physical,
touching people like...

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00:27:23,768 --> 00:27:27,272
So I realized that that dialogue
and that language of in...

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00:27:27,313 --> 00:27:30,108
Like, what I trained
and what I saw,
as soon as I had the power

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to be in charge and to lead,
I used that same language.

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00:27:34,612 --> 00:27:36,932
But I didn’t even think about it
as being a negative thing.

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00:27:38,450 --> 00:27:41,703
And then I realized that
I’m also a part of the problem.

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00:27:44,622 --> 00:27:47,375
Enjoy. Crackers.
You’re in, you're golden.

404
00:27:50,670 --> 00:27:53,715
Yeah, I was assaulted
by my sous-chef.

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00:27:53,757 --> 00:27:56,176
And I should be clear
it wasn’t sexual assault.

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00:27:57,302 --> 00:28:00,847
He just hated me as a person.
I don’t think it mattered
that I was a woman.

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00:28:02,182 --> 00:28:06,186
I think it was a Saturday night
service. It was midnight.
We were finally closing.

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00:28:06,227 --> 00:28:10,357
It had been a brutal service
and he told me to
take apart my stove

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and start scrubbing it down,

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00:28:15,028 --> 00:28:18,406
and I said: “No.
There’s no way I’m doing that.

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00:28:18,448 --> 00:28:22,535
That’s just you... That’s just
something you’ve made up
as a punishment

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00:28:22,577 --> 00:28:25,622
and there’s no way.
I don’t get paid
to do this shit.”

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00:28:25,663 --> 00:28:29,834
So I was talking back to him.
And he started tell... saying:
“Yes, you are. Yes, you will.”

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00:28:29,876 --> 00:28:33,588
And I... I screamed at him
and I said: “Go fuck yourself.”
And I walked away

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00:28:33,630 --> 00:28:37,008
and he came running after
me and he threw me down.

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And he had a clipboard and he...

417
00:28:39,594 --> 00:28:45,308
The clipboard was jammed
under my neck like this
and I couldn’t breathe.

418
00:28:45,350 --> 00:28:48,228
And all I could see was
his face and the giant vein

419
00:28:48,269 --> 00:28:52,440
on his forehead just pulsing
and his red face screaming.

420
00:28:52,482 --> 00:28:55,568
And I was kicking out ‘cause
I was against the counter

421
00:28:55,610 --> 00:28:58,655
and I was kicking out
and I finally connected with
his knee, I think.

422
00:28:58,697 --> 00:29:02,450
I connected with some part of
his leg and he let me go
and I ran out the door.

423
00:29:04,494 --> 00:29:07,956
And I told the owner the next
day. I sat down with her.

424
00:29:09,249 --> 00:29:13,044
I was still, like, shocked
that this had happened

425
00:29:13,086 --> 00:29:16,381
and I started crying
and she said: “Suck it up.

426
00:29:18,216 --> 00:29:21,428
Get... What’s wrong with you?
You should have done
what he told you to do.”

427
00:29:23,304 --> 00:29:29,978
I was in the wrong
and I didn’t respect him and
he could do whatever he liked.

428
00:29:38,403 --> 00:29:41,364
[Amanda] If we don’t talk about
these things, it’s never
gonna get better.

429
00:29:41,406 --> 00:29:45,076
It’s hard to talk about it.
It’s not always fun being the
first person to talk about it.

430
00:29:45,118 --> 00:29:47,454
Uh... But you have to.

431
00:29:48,705 --> 00:29:50,999
How do other people learn
if you don’t talk about it?

432
00:29:51,041 --> 00:29:53,168
[rhythmic music]

433
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,644
You know, assault is wrong.
Sexual assault is wrong.
Abuse is wrong.

434
00:30:11,686 --> 00:30:14,356
I’ve had many conversations.
I was actually asked to speak

435
00:30:14,397 --> 00:30:18,526
about a chef that uhm...
was accused with assault uh...
not long ago,

436
00:30:18,568 --> 00:30:20,820
and I said, like: “Listen,
I can’t speak to this because

437
00:30:20,862 --> 00:30:23,615
this person that I know
has never assaulted me.

438
00:30:23,656 --> 00:30:27,369
This person has always
supported me as a mentor,
as a colleague.”

439
00:30:28,787 --> 00:30:30,872
So, it’s very complicated.

440
00:30:33,541 --> 00:30:37,379
We have heard a lot of
these stories about this
kind of behavior in kitchens.

441
00:30:38,588 --> 00:30:42,634
The only way that’s gonna change
is if chefs change it.

442
00:30:43,927 --> 00:30:48,139
The chef who was in that kitchen
has to dictate the culture
of that kitchen.

443
00:30:51,351 --> 00:30:53,144
[guitar music]

444
00:30:59,067 --> 00:31:02,612
- Hi. Hi.
- Hello to mama?

445
00:31:02,654 --> 00:31:04,489
- Hi.
- Hello, mom.

446
00:31:04,531 --> 00:31:07,742
- Hi. Come. Let’s go inside.
- OK.

447
00:31:08,827 --> 00:31:13,331
[Suzanne] Do you wanna see
Kid Chocolate? Have you seen
the work that Daddy did?

448
00:31:14,541 --> 00:31:17,981
So Myles, come, come. Let me
show you. Let me show you.
Let me show you Mommy’s kitchen.

449
00:31:18,795 --> 00:31:20,588
See? So here’s the sink.

450
00:31:22,966 --> 00:31:26,446
So this... So we’ll be doing
dishes here and then we’ll have
the food that comes up here.

451
00:31:27,554 --> 00:31:29,723
Here’s a working refrigerator.

452
00:31:29,764 --> 00:31:32,183
This is gonna be a steam table.

453
00:31:33,268 --> 00:31:35,729
- This is Mommy’s
shiny new kitchen.
- Yeah.

454
00:31:36,688 --> 00:31:41,276
Isn’t it nice? It’s a lot
smaller. It’s quite different
than the other one, yeah?

455
00:31:42,485 --> 00:31:44,029
So there have been some changes.

456
00:31:45,864 --> 00:31:48,544
[Suzanne] We had to close our
doors to Saturday Dinette
unexpectedly.

457
00:31:49,993 --> 00:31:55,623
We’ve had some real problems
with our landlords and we had
to break our lease early.

458
00:31:55,665 --> 00:31:56,665
Come on let’s go.

459
00:31:57,876 --> 00:32:00,795
[Suzanne] Saturday Dinette was
going to be a support

460
00:32:00,837 --> 00:32:04,424
while we were building out,
but now with that financial
support gone,

461
00:32:04,466 --> 00:32:06,301
our thought has to shift a bit.

462
00:32:06,343 --> 00:32:08,595
We have to really re-think
how are we going

463
00:32:08,636 --> 00:32:11,389
to fund the opening
of a new project?

464
00:32:12,390 --> 00:32:17,145
I love you. Keep going.
Alright, I’ll call you later.

465
00:32:18,855 --> 00:32:20,899
Kid Chocolate really is
Johnnie’s baby and he’s

466
00:32:20,940 --> 00:32:24,569
been doing all the renovations
through this whole process.

467
00:32:28,031 --> 00:32:32,494
It’s uh... Yeah, it’s been
a journey, but that’s
the Dinette

468
00:32:32,535 --> 00:32:34,287
and this is Kid Chocolate.

469
00:32:41,211 --> 00:32:42,671
Such a shame.

470
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,176
There’s so many good
things about that space.

471
00:32:51,638 --> 00:32:54,808
You know, it was 3 years of...
of my life.

472
00:32:54,849 --> 00:32:59,938
And that may not seem like a lot
of time, but it was definitely
such an important time.

473
00:32:59,979 --> 00:33:03,942
My son was almost born
in that... you know,
in that restaurant.

474
00:33:03,983 --> 00:33:06,194
I’ll always have
a connection to the space.

475
00:33:12,617 --> 00:33:16,121
[Suzanne] That was my
everything. That was my baby.

476
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,342
- Hi. How are you?
- Good, thanks.

477
00:33:34,222 --> 00:33:35,390
- Thank you.
- Thank you.

478
00:33:35,432 --> 00:33:36,592
- Have a good day.
- You, too.

479
00:33:46,026 --> 00:33:47,795
- [man] What’s up, Chef?
- [Anita] Hey, how are you?

480
00:33:47,819 --> 00:33:49,237
- Good. How are you?
- [Anita] Good.

481
00:33:57,996 --> 00:34:00,540
[Anita] There’s just so many
moving parts in a restaurant.

482
00:34:02,208 --> 00:34:06,504
One month some... you know,
50 thousand dollar piece
of equipment could go down,

483
00:34:07,005 --> 00:34:10,050
and... you know,
do you have that or not?

484
00:34:12,969 --> 00:34:17,557
You know, we don’t really get
into this to be business people

485
00:34:17,599 --> 00:34:19,100
or even to make money
on some level,

486
00:34:20,727 --> 00:34:24,189
but, uh... if you don’t,
you can’t... you can’t cook.

487
00:34:25,899 --> 00:34:27,067
But it’s always stressful.

488
00:34:28,693 --> 00:34:31,112
You know, even when
you’re doing well,
it can be stressful.

489
00:34:35,950 --> 00:34:39,454
So I’ve announced that uhm...
we’re going to be closing at
the end of May.

490
00:34:40,789 --> 00:34:42,290
You know, we’ve got
four weeks left.

491
00:34:43,792 --> 00:34:46,211
You know, I’ve been doing this
for almost 30 years.

492
00:34:46,795 --> 00:34:49,089
I’d like to see
what else I can do.

493
00:34:56,888 --> 00:35:00,934
[Amanda] Anita was so important
in this city and we wanna
make sure that uh...

494
00:35:00,975 --> 00:35:02,686
female chefs aren’t
a dying breed.

495
00:35:03,561 --> 00:35:06,981
We have to keep pushing it
for more and more recognition

496
00:35:07,023 --> 00:35:10,819
uh... so that other female chefs
who are coming up behind us

497
00:35:10,860 --> 00:35:13,488
realize that there is a place
for them in this industry.

498
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:21,496
We tend to write women chefs
out of the history of chefdom.

499
00:35:23,581 --> 00:35:27,460
The most famous uh... woman chef
who was uh... written out of

500
00:35:27,502 --> 00:35:29,838
uh... history is
Eugénie Brazier,

501
00:35:29,879 --> 00:35:33,758
who was one of the uh...
grand mèresof uh... Lyon.

502
00:35:35,093 --> 00:35:37,887
That was the 1930s.
1933 or so.

503
00:35:38,638 --> 00:35:41,224
Eugénie Brazier had gone
to Paris and she had

504
00:35:41,266 --> 00:35:44,352
three restaurants
and she ended up with like,
six Michelin stars.

505
00:35:44,394 --> 00:35:46,688
Hugely celebrated.

506
00:35:46,730 --> 00:35:49,524
And then time goes on,
time goes on, da-da-da.

507
00:35:49,566 --> 00:35:51,484
This is... That was
a number of years ago,

508
00:35:51,526 --> 00:35:53,778
Alain Ducasse gets
his sixth Michelin star,

509
00:35:54,237 --> 00:35:57,907
and everyone writes about him
being the first person
in history

510
00:35:57,949 --> 00:36:00,160
who has ever gotten
six Michelin stars.

511
00:36:01,619 --> 00:36:04,622
But she was actually
the first. And...

512
00:36:04,664 --> 00:36:07,375
So, that’s what I mean
when women are
written out of history.

513
00:36:07,417 --> 00:36:08,877
We’ve forgotten that part of it.

514
00:36:10,045 --> 00:36:15,342
[calm piano music]

515
00:36:42,410 --> 00:36:46,748
[Anne-Sophie] When I started
working, I didn’t really care
about all the women.

516
00:36:47,957 --> 00:36:51,336
I just wanted men
recognize me as a chef.

517
00:36:53,963 --> 00:36:58,843
But now, uh... I feel
that we have to be more...

518
00:36:59,219 --> 00:37:02,931
Uhm... all together the women
in the kitchen to be more
solidaire.

519
00:37:10,855 --> 00:37:13,149
I have seven
uh... Michelin stars.

520
00:37:13,191 --> 00:37:15,777
I have three Michelin stars
here in Valence.

521
00:37:17,237 --> 00:37:20,782
In France, I’m the only
woman to have three stars

522
00:37:21,783 --> 00:37:26,413
and in the world uh...
there is only six women
to have three stars or more.

523
00:37:31,918 --> 00:37:35,505
It’s 25 years I am
in the kitchen,

524
00:37:35,547 --> 00:37:37,590
but I was not a chef
from the beginning.

525
00:37:38,550 --> 00:37:41,761
I uh... decided to return home

526
00:37:41,803 --> 00:37:45,640
uh... after my studies
because I wanted to learn
how to cook.

527
00:37:56,651 --> 00:37:59,070
When I decided to return,

528
00:37:59,112 --> 00:38:01,990
I could not imagine it would
be so hard, so difficult

529
00:38:02,032 --> 00:38:05,660
because I, I could not imagine
my father passed away a few
months after I came back.

530
00:38:54,751 --> 00:38:59,714
The 30s or the 40s uh...
with my grandfather,

531
00:38:59,756 --> 00:39:04,719
it didn’t make a difference
between a woman or a man
in the kitchen.

532
00:39:04,761 --> 00:39:08,390
After, during my father’s
period, it was different.

533
00:39:21,903 --> 00:39:26,825
I was uh... how to say
at the beginning, very uhm...

534
00:39:26,866 --> 00:39:31,621
uh... respectful for history
and uh... I was afraid to do
something wrong.

535
00:39:32,872 --> 00:39:37,752
Then I gained more
self-confidence. It was
little by little. Step by step.

536
00:39:41,923 --> 00:39:45,927
I have the palette, so it was
something, a reference for me
what was important.

537
00:39:46,261 --> 00:39:48,430
Something I was
sure of was that.

538
00:39:53,268 --> 00:39:56,730
[Anne-Sophie]
But technically, uh...
I had to learn so many things.

539
00:40:39,564 --> 00:40:40,564
No.

540
00:41:21,606 --> 00:41:24,150
- [Laura] How many lamb on there?
- [waiter] I’ve got one lamb.

541
00:41:24,192 --> 00:41:26,653
- [Laura] Rump? Du jour?
- Not du jour. No. À la carte.

542
00:41:28,488 --> 00:41:33,118
Ça marche, uh... six covers.
Table 14. Two squash,
one risotto à la carte, one eel,

543
00:41:33,159 --> 00:41:35,995
two rabbit à la carte, one
radishes. To follow, two beef,

544
00:41:36,037 --> 00:41:38,707
- one brill, one lamb à la carte,
one monkey.
- [cooks] Yeah, yeah.

545
00:41:41,126 --> 00:41:43,312
[Angela] Historically, a kitchen
brigade, which is basically

546
00:41:43,336 --> 00:41:46,673
the kitchen team that follow
those French traditions.

547
00:41:48,133 --> 00:41:52,345
Oscar is the head chef, so,
his overall responsibility
for everything.

548
00:41:52,387 --> 00:41:56,641
Um... Sous chefs you
have Martina and Emily.

549
00:41:56,683 --> 00:42:00,061
[Emily] Can you make sure
there’s nice and salted, the
water and it’s boiling, yeah?

550
00:42:01,271 --> 00:42:04,315
[Angela] And then you have guys
underneath that are all
the chefs de partie.

551
00:42:04,357 --> 00:42:06,192
They’re the ones that then
run the sections.

552
00:42:06,234 --> 00:42:09,154
The meat and fish,
pastry, garnish and larder.

553
00:42:09,195 --> 00:42:10,475
They should be able
to do it all.

554
00:42:12,407 --> 00:42:14,909
I think it’s changed a lot now.

555
00:42:14,951 --> 00:42:17,412
I’ve never said to anyone,
“Call me Chef.”

556
00:42:17,454 --> 00:42:20,498
I’m more than happy... I mean,
Oscar calls me Angela.
Laura calls me Angela.

557
00:42:20,540 --> 00:42:22,184
- [Angela] Service.
- [Martina] Service, please.

558
00:42:22,208 --> 00:42:24,252
[Angela] Let’s go.

559
00:42:25,003 --> 00:42:27,843
[Angela] I certainly don’t worry
about it. I’m happy
being called Angela,

560
00:42:28,256 --> 00:42:32,010
because if we want things
to change and we want people
to be treated equally,

561
00:42:32,052 --> 00:42:35,096
I think that’s partly to do with
how you run it and how you work
in a kitchen.

562
00:42:36,431 --> 00:42:38,308
Lemon.
Let’s go. Wait.

563
00:42:39,059 --> 00:42:43,563
[Ivy]
The brigade system is based
on the military and that is

564
00:42:43,605 --> 00:42:46,900
obvious if you looked
at it from a distance,

565
00:42:47,525 --> 00:42:51,196
they look very similar, the
military and the kitchen world.

566
00:42:51,237 --> 00:42:53,466
-[Oscar] Repeated sauces
Parparadelle and risotto
à la carte.

567
00:42:53,490 --> 00:42:55,825
[all] Oui.

568
00:42:56,284 --> 00:42:58,578
[Victoria]
Even though I may not
like the military,

569
00:42:58,620 --> 00:43:01,223
I don’t know if it’s whether
because I come from Chile
or not, but...

570
00:43:01,247 --> 00:43:04,626
it’s so structured,
but it makes so much sense.

571
00:43:07,253 --> 00:43:12,425
Careful with the salt. Add a bit
of lemon. Yeah. That’s a little
heavy on the seasoning.

572
00:43:12,467 --> 00:43:14,278
[Victoria] I would say it’s
about how you command, right?

573
00:43:14,302 --> 00:43:16,304
So there is a chief of command,

574
00:43:16,346 --> 00:43:17,666
that will be your
Chef de cuisine.

575
00:43:18,139 --> 00:43:20,058
There is hierarchy.

576
00:43:20,100 --> 00:43:22,185
Uhm... You listen
to one person

577
00:43:22,227 --> 00:43:24,437
and that person says yes and no
and that’s what it is.

578
00:43:24,479 --> 00:43:27,315
There’s no room for
“Oh, let’s just talk about it.”

579
00:43:28,233 --> 00:43:32,320
- [Amanda] Where’s Jason? Jason.
- [Jason] Yes.

580
00:43:32,362 --> 00:43:35,073
- Do you have
your zucchini batter set up?
- Yes.

581
00:43:35,115 --> 00:43:38,326
It’s done? I’d like you
to take out the stove
and have it set up.

582
00:43:38,368 --> 00:43:39,368
Heard.

583
00:43:41,413 --> 00:43:44,499
I think actually that brigade,
hierarchal system is great.

584
00:43:44,541 --> 00:43:46,268
I think it gives structure.
I think it’s terrific.

585
00:43:46,292 --> 00:43:48,211
You know exactly who
your boss is.

586
00:43:48,253 --> 00:43:50,171
You know what
the chain of command is.

587
00:43:50,213 --> 00:43:52,966
No. Too many. You’re only...
You’re ever only allowed

588
00:43:53,008 --> 00:43:56,302
to carry three things
at the very, very most.

589
00:43:56,970 --> 00:43:59,931
The staff that I’m getting
is much, much younger.

590
00:43:59,973 --> 00:44:02,684
I have like 19 year-olds
and 20 year-olds and

591
00:44:02,726 --> 00:44:06,521
this is college for them and
structure isn’t a bad thing.

592
00:44:07,230 --> 00:44:11,192
[Amanda] Jem, don’t leave your
towel on your counter. I will
remind you of that.

593
00:44:13,278 --> 00:44:16,781
[Amanda] But I also tell
everybody, it’s just a job.
I’m gonna yell at you.

594
00:44:16,823 --> 00:44:19,868
It’s gonna feel really tough
and in five minutes it’s done.

595
00:44:25,749 --> 00:44:32,547
[Anita] For me as a young
person, when I went into that
militaristic brigade system,

596
00:44:32,589 --> 00:44:37,344
it was a good time in my life
to have that kind of structure.
And I was happy for it.

597
00:44:38,345 --> 00:44:43,099
That being said, I don’t think
I was that welcomed as...
as a female.

598
00:44:43,475 --> 00:44:47,729
The first course is yellowfin
tuna crudo with avocado s’rug...
s’rug,

599
00:44:47,771 --> 00:44:51,024
crispy chickpeas and
aleppo pepper. We’ve got
aleppo pepper downstairs.

600
00:44:51,066 --> 00:44:52,692
So just have that
on your station.

601
00:44:52,734 --> 00:44:55,153
[Anita] It was very difficult
learning how to uhm...

602
00:44:55,195 --> 00:44:57,405
be a manager. It was one of
the most painful things.

603
00:44:58,406 --> 00:45:03,203
You know, we’re supposed to
nurture and uh... we’re not
supposed to lead.

604
00:45:03,828 --> 00:45:06,474
[Anita] OK, I would put them
in... What I would do is
put them in, uh...

605
00:45:06,498 --> 00:45:09,334
- the... the four ounce molds.
- [cook] OK.

606
00:45:09,376 --> 00:45:12,536
[Anita] Not too much.
It should be about the mushroom.
It’s not about the pastry.

607
00:45:13,380 --> 00:45:15,382
Male chefs they want
to be there, you know.

608
00:45:15,423 --> 00:45:18,093
“We are the chef. We do
everything. We shout, we...”

609
00:45:18,134 --> 00:45:21,971
I don’t want to work like this.

610
00:45:22,013 --> 00:45:24,307
When I did that I was not
concentrating on
the real things.

611
00:45:25,100 --> 00:45:27,227
For me the real thing
is the taste.

612
00:45:34,317 --> 00:45:37,320
[ANNE-SOPHIE] To be precise,
I’m very precise and I want

613
00:45:37,362 --> 00:45:39,864
people to be precise and
they need to be precise.

614
00:45:43,451 --> 00:45:46,454
Don’t grate your finger, Omri.
We love your fingers.

615
00:45:48,164 --> 00:45:50,250
And remember, give me
the cookies and cream with rum.

616
00:45:50,291 --> 00:45:53,169
- Not the one that
doesn’t have rum.
- [Omri] The rum. Yes.

617
00:45:53,211 --> 00:45:54,212
- Omri?
- Yeah.

618
00:45:54,254 --> 00:45:56,256
- Are you OK?
- Yeah.

619
00:45:56,297 --> 00:45:57,525
I would appreciate the tone to
be a little bit different.

620
00:45:57,549 --> 00:46:00,176
Yes, rum, OK, yes, OK? Cool.

621
00:46:00,218 --> 00:46:01,261
- Yes, Chef.
- Wonderful.

622
00:46:04,764 --> 00:46:08,685
I’m not gonna be disrespectful,
but I’m gonna be very direct.

623
00:46:08,727 --> 00:46:11,438
No, you don’t wanna
flatten it out, Omri, man.

624
00:46:12,397 --> 00:46:15,233
Man, it’s like let it flow
naturally, you know?
You don’t wanna...

625
00:46:15,275 --> 00:46:17,861
[Victoria] I see a lot of... you
know, like a double standard.

626
00:46:18,611 --> 00:46:21,364
If I am tough and
serious and direct,

627
00:46:21,406 --> 00:46:24,367
I’m gonna be more criticized
instead of if I was a man.

628
00:46:24,409 --> 00:46:27,078
If I were a man, no one
would say anything, but because

629
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,247
I’m a woman they’re like:
“Oh, she’s so difficult.”

630
00:46:30,749 --> 00:46:36,254
You're supposed to be nicer.
You're supposed to be softer.
You're supposed to be sweeter.

631
00:46:39,591 --> 00:46:42,385
[Victoria] Omri, Next time,
don’t ever... You need
way more color.

632
00:46:42,427 --> 00:46:44,596
- Yeah.
- No, on this side.

633
00:46:44,637 --> 00:46:47,557
There’s not enough color.
I’ve said that to you before.

634
00:46:47,599 --> 00:46:50,226
Make sure you get good color.
You need the garlic oil,

635
00:46:50,268 --> 00:46:52,395
- so pay more attention
to it, okay?
- Yes.

636
00:46:52,437 --> 00:46:54,606
It’s something so simple as
a waffle and it’s kind of

637
00:46:54,647 --> 00:46:56,816
funny and ridiculous
that at least

638
00:46:56,858 --> 00:46:58,544
- you need to make sure
that the cooking is right.
- Yes, Chef.

639
00:46:58,568 --> 00:47:00,362
Because if not, it’s
also funny, stupid and

640
00:47:00,403 --> 00:47:02,197
- poorly executed, OK?
- OK.

641
00:48:58,813 --> 00:49:02,275
[Angela] In London, there’s
four restaurants that
I’m associated with.

642
00:49:02,317 --> 00:49:04,986
Murano’s the, if you like,
the figure head.

643
00:49:05,028 --> 00:49:08,865
Then we have two café Muranos.
And then we have
Merchants Tavern.

644
00:49:08,907 --> 00:49:12,577
It’s East End so it’s a bit
more quirky, but brilliant food.

645
00:49:13,745 --> 00:49:15,789
[Angela] Why is it with
the mayonnaise and lemon?

646
00:49:16,706 --> 00:49:18,726
- Is that what they’ve
put on the menu?
- [cook] Yeah.

647
00:49:18,750 --> 00:49:22,337
Does it actually say "Haggis
croquettes with lemon and mayo"?

648
00:49:22,379 --> 00:49:23,588
- Yeah.
- I’m gonna kill him.

649
00:49:24,923 --> 00:49:27,759
You know, everyone presumed...
you know, the Midas touch,

650
00:49:27,801 --> 00:49:29,721
but actually it’s not as
easy as everyone thinks.

651
00:49:30,595 --> 00:49:32,639
[indistinct] in that,
and it’s not cooked, Joe.

652
00:49:33,765 --> 00:49:37,394
[Angela] With more competition,
fewer staff, higher rents
and raises,

653
00:49:37,435 --> 00:49:40,522
lots of things that are
contriving to make it
harder and harder daily.

654
00:49:41,523 --> 00:49:44,401
- Guys, you need to have here,
We’re missing the sauces...
- [cook] Yes.

655
00:49:44,442 --> 00:49:46,611
- For the side plates.
- [cook] Yes, Chef.

656
00:49:46,653 --> 00:49:49,489
We’re missing the under plates.
I’ve said these are too small.

657
00:49:49,531 --> 00:49:52,367
It’s like repeating
myself every day. No.

658
00:49:54,494 --> 00:49:57,872
People do have this
misconception about when
they go to a restaurant,

659
00:49:57,914 --> 00:50:01,167
I think they just think they’re
just paying for the actual food
on their plate,

660
00:50:01,584 --> 00:50:04,379
and maybe the tip
to their server.

661
00:50:04,421 --> 00:50:06,506
But really,
the price of the meal,

662
00:50:06,548 --> 00:50:08,508
it’s like you’re renting
that table for the night.

663
00:50:09,843 --> 00:50:12,604
They see a busy restaurant
and they think you’re making
a lot of money.

664
00:50:13,179 --> 00:50:16,516
We do. We take in a ton
of money at Dirt Candy.
Probably close to like,

665
00:50:18,935 --> 00:50:22,480
somewhere between $180,000
and $200,000 a month.

666
00:50:22,522 --> 00:50:26,067
It also costs me about
$180,000, $200,000 a month
to run the restaurant.

667
00:50:29,487 --> 00:50:32,032
You wanna take the wine
and you wanna smell it.

668
00:50:32,073 --> 00:50:35,618
Show him how to uh... swirl
the wine so he opens it up.

669
00:50:35,910 --> 00:50:40,707
Smell it a little bit. Now,
it’s... it’s gonna... Release
it. Try not to do it too much.

670
00:50:40,749 --> 00:50:45,420
Alright, now. Yeah,
but get close. Put your nose in.
Don’t be afraid. Get close.

671
00:50:46,796 --> 00:50:48,715
[Amanda] We made a couple
of really big changes.

672
00:50:49,591 --> 00:50:53,011
We’re trying to up our game
and we’re now stepping
into fine dining.

673
00:50:53,053 --> 00:50:54,864
[Michael] So, like I was saying
in those training, like,

674
00:50:54,888 --> 00:50:57,932
you guys bring a certain element
of your personality

675
00:50:57,974 --> 00:51:00,185
that is something that you
should continue to focus on.

676
00:51:00,226 --> 00:51:02,771
[Amanda] We’ve had a front
of house consultant,
Michael Cherry,

677
00:51:02,812 --> 00:51:06,024
the general manager at Annisa
come in and work with us.

678
00:51:06,066 --> 00:51:09,861
Our servers have gone through
weeks and weeks of training

679
00:51:10,779 --> 00:51:15,784
and we’ve sort of all been like,
re-learning all the recipes and
how to make them more precise

680
00:51:15,825 --> 00:51:20,580
so that we really are
consistent and how to
slow down a little bit

681
00:51:20,622 --> 00:51:21,902
so that we’re
doing a better job.

682
00:51:24,250 --> 00:51:30,298
Alright. So now I’m waiting
for one, two, three
more towers.

683
00:51:31,675 --> 00:51:35,095
We are not going down tonight.
We are not going down.

684
00:51:35,136 --> 00:51:37,847
We are at 92
and we are not going down.

685
00:51:37,889 --> 00:51:40,850
- No, leave all that.
- Oh, shit. Tower.

686
00:51:41,559 --> 00:51:44,396
Tower goes to 301.
Adam, you will follow.

687
00:51:45,647 --> 00:51:50,652
Not 301. Yes, 301.
Oh well, they went.

688
00:51:52,487 --> 00:51:54,406
[Amanda] We have
a lot of growing pains.

689
00:51:54,447 --> 00:51:56,866
Just sort of figuring out how
this whole new system works.

690
00:51:57,951 --> 00:52:01,579
While we do sort of wanna
get new customers in,

691
00:52:01,621 --> 00:52:03,790
we also wanna make sure that
we don’t offend everybody

692
00:52:03,832 --> 00:52:06,501
who we used to have, and it is
this delicate balance.

693
00:52:07,252 --> 00:52:11,381
[Travis] Thank you, folks.
Really appreciate your patience.
Sorry about that, guys.

694
00:52:12,757 --> 00:52:15,885
So this is your salad course.
Uh... So we have these in tiers.

695
00:52:15,927 --> 00:52:19,931
Bottom tier would be your
vegetables. Your middle is your
lettuce. With every lettuce...

696
00:52:19,973 --> 00:52:23,268
With every salad you have
lettuce and then on top are
our croutons or breadsticks,

697
00:52:23,309 --> 00:52:27,022
so uh... I’ll go one by one.
So, on the bottom you have some
hon shimeji mushrooms

698
00:52:27,063 --> 00:52:30,108
and a mushroom milk, aguachile,
cucumbers and some melon.

699
00:52:30,942 --> 00:52:34,130
Uh... I wanna see white truffle,
let’s push white truffle
and let’s push fish today.

700
00:52:34,154 --> 00:52:36,656
Angela needs the whole truffle
for tonight’s dinner.

701
00:52:36,698 --> 00:52:39,576
[Oscar] Um... So make sure,
please that everything is
nice and clean, OK?

702
00:52:39,617 --> 00:52:41,828
[Angela] You can’t rest
on your laurels.

703
00:52:41,870 --> 00:52:43,705
It’s not about
white tablecloths.

704
00:52:43,747 --> 00:52:46,541
It’s not about glassware
and fancy pictures.

705
00:52:46,583 --> 00:52:48,877
It’s about the consistency
of that food on the table.

706
00:52:51,254 --> 00:52:54,054
But you know, sometimes
everyone’s now trying to be
so different from it

707
00:52:54,090 --> 00:52:56,134
you know, you’ll go somewhere
and you know,

708
00:52:56,176 --> 00:52:59,304
you’ll be lucky if you get
a glass, never mind a napkin.

709
00:52:59,346 --> 00:53:02,849
And I’m going bloody...
I’d quite like a tablecloth and
I’d like not to be sitting next

710
00:53:02,891 --> 00:53:05,211
to the table like this so I can
actually hear what I think.

711
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,687
And maybe I’m old,
but you know...

712
00:53:07,729 --> 00:53:09,206
That’s not to say there’s not
a place for everything else,

713
00:53:09,230 --> 00:53:11,149
but I think there still is
a place for

714
00:53:11,191 --> 00:53:13,485
fine dining for want of
a better word, shall we say.

715
00:53:19,532 --> 00:53:23,370
[Anne-Sophie] My father,
he, he trained me to taste.

716
00:53:23,411 --> 00:53:29,376
Every time we share a lunch or
a dinner he was making some
remarks on what he was eating.

717
00:53:30,669 --> 00:53:31,669
[gentle piano music]

718
00:55:00,050 --> 00:55:02,093
[Anne-Sophie]
This is a lot of flavors.

719
00:55:02,135 --> 00:55:05,722
So each member of the team
really has to really understand

720
00:55:05,764 --> 00:55:09,517
where I want to go. It’s not
so easy. It’s more complex
to transmit.

721
00:56:26,177 --> 00:56:29,764
Alright!
I just smashed it to get all
that butter and brown sugar

722
00:56:29,806 --> 00:56:33,435
just like, I don't know,
so good. How are you guys
enjoying the tasting so far?

723
00:56:33,476 --> 00:56:35,830
- [man] Oh, it’s awesome.
- Awesome. Have you
been here before?

724
00:56:35,854 --> 00:56:38,898
- We have, but not
for the tasting menu.
- It’s really great.

725
00:56:38,940 --> 00:56:40,567
- Yeah.
- Alright. Now we’re ready.

726
00:56:45,238 --> 00:56:48,199
[Amanda] The funny thing
with a restaurant is...

727
00:56:48,241 --> 00:56:51,911
it’s actually not always
about the food. It’s about
the whole show.

728
00:56:52,245 --> 00:56:54,685
- [cook] And then we have our
lemonized cream.
- [man] Awesome.

729
00:56:55,999 --> 00:56:58,710
[Amanda] I feel like going out
to eat should be like a party.

730
00:56:59,210 --> 00:57:02,964
This is my party and you’ve come
to my house and I throw a party
every night

731
00:57:03,006 --> 00:57:05,592
and hopefully you like it and
hopefully you have a good time.

732
00:57:08,094 --> 00:57:12,140
I loved having dinner at
the table with my family.
I have a big family.

733
00:57:12,182 --> 00:57:15,810
So for me though the memories
of food have less to do with
the actual food

734
00:57:15,852 --> 00:57:19,189
and more to do with
all the circumstances
surrounding it,

735
00:57:19,230 --> 00:57:21,941
which is a big part
of this restaurant.

736
00:57:21,983 --> 00:57:24,319
I hope we’ve managed
to give you a really good time.

737
00:57:25,070 --> 00:57:28,031
Yeah, your tasting hasn’t
even gotten good yet.

738
00:57:28,073 --> 00:57:32,285
- You’re actually
at the bad part.
- The bad part?

739
00:57:32,327 --> 00:57:35,080
- It gets really good.
- Time will tell.

740
00:57:37,290 --> 00:57:40,019
This journalist goes,
“Do you think you could
write me 400 words, Angela?”

741
00:57:40,043 --> 00:57:42,462
And I went “No!” I said...

742
00:57:42,504 --> 00:57:47,008
[Angela] I like the camaraderie
in a kitchen. I like the banter.

743
00:57:47,050 --> 00:57:49,487
Not to say everyone’s a saint.
You know, we all take the mickey

744
00:57:49,511 --> 00:57:52,013
out of each other and we have
a laugh about things.

745
00:57:52,055 --> 00:57:54,015
- Thank you.
- No, no. Not at all.

746
00:57:54,057 --> 00:57:56,142
- Absolutely superb.
- Good. Yeah. No, no, no.

747
00:57:56,184 --> 00:57:58,645
[Angela] And I like seeing
customers having a great time,

748
00:57:58,687 --> 00:58:00,480
and you’ve been part of that.

749
00:58:01,106 --> 00:58:04,150
When you know that someone’s had
a wonderful time
in your restaurant.

750
00:58:04,192 --> 00:58:06,796
They’ve enjoyed the service.
They’ve enjoyed the food and
they’re very happy about it.

751
00:58:06,820 --> 00:58:07,880
That’s a very good feeling.

752
00:58:07,904 --> 00:58:08,944
- See you later.
- Bye bye.

753
00:58:10,365 --> 00:58:11,700
[humming]

754
00:58:14,869 --> 00:58:16,162
OK. How are we looking?

755
00:58:41,563 --> 00:58:45,525
[Charlotte]
As a chef that has worked for
other employers for many years,

756
00:58:45,567 --> 00:58:50,530
I wanted to have my own
opportunity to showcase what I
wanted to do and how I’d do it.

757
00:58:50,572 --> 00:58:54,075
And I was like, well I’m gonna
throw a dinner party and
see if people wanna come.

758
00:58:57,537 --> 00:59:01,624
So people are calling these
pop-ups, underground.
They’re top secret.

759
00:59:01,666 --> 00:59:05,003
They’re exclusive or whatever.
I keep going back to that word

760
00:59:05,045 --> 00:59:08,256
because they’re not
totally on the grid.

761
00:59:08,298 --> 00:59:10,842
And that makes them have
actually a bit more panache.

762
00:59:11,634 --> 00:59:14,234
- Hi. It’s a pleasure to
meet you. Valerie.
- Pleasure to meet you.

763
00:59:15,013 --> 00:59:17,074
[Charlotte] So tonight for
example, the majority of the
guests that are coming,

764
00:59:17,098 --> 00:59:19,379
I have no idea who they are.
Like they’re just signing up.

765
00:59:20,101 --> 00:59:22,354
- Hello, I’m Tammy.
- I’m Robin.

766
00:59:22,395 --> 00:59:24,647
It’s like, Dear, so-and-so,

767
00:59:24,689 --> 00:59:27,129
I’m having this lovely dinner,
I’d love for you to be a guest.

768
00:59:28,568 --> 00:59:32,030
Here’s a... like a website
link to this email to make
a reservation. Come if you can.

769
00:59:32,072 --> 00:59:35,200
Any allergies across the board?
No? Excellent.

770
00:59:35,617 --> 00:59:39,621
The bathroom’s there. There’s a
more intimate bathroom upstairs
if you need to make out or

771
00:59:39,662 --> 00:59:42,374
take your shirt off or something
like that, but in the meantime,

772
00:59:42,415 --> 00:59:43,708
that’s probably
gonna do for now.

773
00:59:45,752 --> 00:59:47,146
[Charlotte] I think people
probably wanna have like an
interactive experience.

774
00:59:47,170 --> 00:59:49,839
They just... They don’t wanna
just pay for dinner.
It’s like...

775
00:59:49,881 --> 00:59:52,008
the evolution of
a dinner and a show

776
00:59:52,050 --> 00:59:53,730
is now the dinner
and the show is together.

777
00:59:54,094 --> 00:59:55,970
- Yes, thank you.
- [Valerie] Bon appétit...

778
00:59:56,012 --> 00:59:58,973
Guys, dig into it!
Don’t be shy. Don’t be shy.

779
00:59:59,015 --> 01:00:04,813
Cheers. Happy uh... holidays.
Uh... Pre-holidays. Ey! Ey! Ey!

780
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,296
[waiter] There is another table
that would really love to meet
you if possible.

781
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:13,320
OK. Yeah. Yeah.

782
01:00:16,282 --> 01:00:20,161
- They’ve been here
a number of times.
- Okay. Oh, there they are.

783
01:00:23,081 --> 01:00:25,000
We’d actually been trying
to plan. We were like,

784
01:00:25,041 --> 01:00:27,335
“Annisa’s closing. We have
to go. We have to go."

785
01:00:27,711 --> 01:00:29,689
- Are you, are you guys
in the business?
- We’re all at The Pig.

786
01:00:29,713 --> 01:00:31,607
-We’re all... Yeah.
-Oh, you’re all at The Pig.
Oh, yay.

787
01:00:31,631 --> 01:00:34,175
- I never met somebody like you.
- I’m not going anywhere.

788
01:00:34,217 --> 01:00:37,137
-I know you’re not.
You can come visit me anytime.
-You can always call me.

789
01:00:37,262 --> 01:00:41,266
- [Anita] Get back. Yay.
- [man] Thank you very much.

790
01:00:41,307 --> 01:00:43,977
[Anita] Thank you. Oh.

791
01:00:44,519 --> 01:00:47,480
Oh. Oh, you don’t have to do
that. Yeah. Thank you.

792
01:00:47,522 --> 01:00:49,691
That’s a little heartbreaking.

793
01:00:49,733 --> 01:00:50,918
[Anita] Oh, well, thanks
for coming in.
- Thank you very much.

794
01:00:50,942 --> 01:00:53,111
[Anita] Yeah.

795
01:00:53,153 --> 01:00:55,655
- Hi. We just wanted
to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

796
01:00:55,697 --> 01:00:58,950
- It’s been a dream to
come to this restaurant.
- Awesome. Awesome.

797
01:00:58,992 --> 01:01:01,453
- How’s everything so far?
- Oh, it’s phenomenal.

798
01:01:01,494 --> 01:01:04,706
[Anita] Yeah, it’s been kind of
sad to see all these customers
come by and...

799
01:01:04,748 --> 01:01:08,877
But just every day, like
it’s just... “We’re so sad
to see you go.”

800
01:01:10,795 --> 01:01:15,342
I wrote on Facebook that
the best chef in America
is closing tonight.

801
01:01:15,383 --> 01:01:16,926
- Oh, thank you.
- For me you are.

802
01:01:16,968 --> 01:01:17,969
Oh, thank you.

803
01:01:18,011 --> 01:01:20,889
How is it going?

804
01:01:24,225 --> 01:01:27,395
Let’s do this. Selfie.

805
01:01:46,581 --> 01:01:52,879
I was never comfortable for me
to actually have to be that
public persona of Chef Anita Lo.

806
01:01:53,463 --> 01:01:56,091
And it...
it’s kind of a relief.

807
01:01:58,843 --> 01:02:03,598
You know, yes, there’s
a lot of people that do this
their entire lives and

808
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:07,102
you know, die doing it and I
just... I... That’s not me.

809
01:02:09,020 --> 01:02:11,022
It’s time for the younger
generation to step up.

810
01:02:29,374 --> 01:02:31,668
Alright, so for patties
tonight we’re doing beef,

811
01:02:31,710 --> 01:02:34,838
spiced apple parsnip
is our veggie.

812
01:02:34,879 --> 01:02:37,590
Uhm... We’ve got the ube pie. We
have the three individual

813
01:02:37,632 --> 01:02:40,635
and then we also have a slice of
this once we get to that point.

814
01:02:40,677 --> 01:02:42,303
- [waitress] OK.
- [Suzanne] Uh...

815
01:02:42,345 --> 01:02:44,431
[waitress] We could do
red wine with this maybe?

816
01:02:44,472 --> 01:02:45,616
- [Suzanne] Yeah, that
would be great.
- Just red.

817
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:47,726
[Suzanne] Yeah, red wine
with that. Um...

818
01:02:47,767 --> 01:02:51,146
Let’s really, really, really...
Let’s push the sides.

819
01:02:51,187 --> 01:02:54,482
The sautéed greens,
the tostones, the patties,

820
01:02:54,524 --> 01:02:57,777
those add-ons just to get
our tickets up a bit.

821
01:03:01,197 --> 01:03:03,033
[Suzanne]
So Saturday Dinette has closed.

822
01:03:03,658 --> 01:03:05,285
Kid Chocolate’s not ready to go.

823
01:03:06,369 --> 01:03:09,456
I was offered an opportunity
to come and work

824
01:03:09,497 --> 01:03:11,624
as co-executive chef
at the Gladstone Hotel.

825
01:03:12,625 --> 01:03:15,295
-No, I only have one...
only one thing.
-Bigger? More?

826
01:03:15,337 --> 01:03:16,337
Yeah, more.

827
01:03:18,882 --> 01:03:23,636
[Suzanne] You know, I think I
was known for what I was doing
for Saturday Dinette.

828
01:03:23,678 --> 01:03:27,349
Now people can know me for doing
something quite different at,

829
01:03:27,390 --> 01:03:29,142
you know, a very
well-established hotel.

830
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,563
So right now, as a family,
my income from
the Gladstone is the

831
01:03:33,605 --> 01:03:35,273
only income that
we have coming in.

832
01:03:36,191 --> 01:03:37,859
So that’s a bit of
a strain on us.

833
01:03:38,401 --> 01:03:40,528
Thank you, guys.
Have a good night.

834
01:03:40,570 --> 01:03:43,156
I’ll see you.
Bye, guys.

835
01:03:57,379 --> 01:04:01,424
[Anita] I’m not quite sure
this is my favorite dish, but
this is certainly the dish that

836
01:04:01,466 --> 01:04:05,220
I’m going to be known for,
which are the foie gras
soup dumplings.

837
01:04:05,261 --> 01:04:07,181
I opened with that.
We still have it on the menu.

838
01:04:09,391 --> 01:04:14,270
My father was from Shanghai,
which is where the xiaolongbao,
the soup dumpling, comes from.

839
01:04:14,979 --> 01:04:19,526
I put some foie gras in it
and uh... put some seared
foie gras on top

840
01:04:19,567 --> 01:04:24,364
and for the soup part, I used
one of my mother’s recipes
based on a red cooked meat,

841
01:04:24,406 --> 01:04:27,126
which is something
she would make us for dinner
every once in a while.

842
01:04:30,161 --> 01:04:34,082
- Alright. Done.
- Yeah! Woo!

843
01:04:36,459 --> 01:04:39,879
Alright. You served me
well for 17 years.

844
01:04:44,384 --> 01:04:47,887
[Anita] Food is certainly
emotional, like, because
we’ve had those ties

845
01:04:47,929 --> 01:04:53,101
to mom and nourishment
and it’s identity.

846
01:04:54,811 --> 01:04:58,440
You know, there’s so many things
that you know, could be your,

847
01:04:58,481 --> 01:05:00,275
you know, Proustian Madeleine,
you know.

848
01:05:06,573 --> 01:05:11,369
[Victoria] I find the meaning
of a lot of things when I cook.
Everything makes sense.

849
01:05:12,662 --> 01:05:18,376
I make this sauce,
I love the color and I smell
and it took me to somewhere.

850
01:05:19,669 --> 01:05:22,881
So I get transported to not
necessarily something
that I ate,

851
01:05:22,922 --> 01:05:25,550
but it’s something
that brings me home.

852
01:05:27,427 --> 01:05:30,180
And I’m in love with what I do.

853
01:05:30,221 --> 01:05:32,515
So, it is my constant lover.

854
01:05:33,433 --> 01:05:38,646
I haven’t given up.
It’s the only person-thing
that I haven’t really,

855
01:05:38,688 --> 01:05:42,984
you know, “Oh it’s too much.
I’m done.” It’s what moves me.

856
01:05:45,737 --> 01:05:49,532
Thank you, everybody.
Thank you for sticking out
to the end.

857
01:05:49,574 --> 01:05:53,370
It means a lot to me.
Good luck with everything.

858
01:05:53,411 --> 01:05:57,248
- Thanks, Chef.
- I will always be here
should you need anything.

859
01:05:59,751 --> 01:06:00,794
And now sing.

860
01:06:00,835 --> 01:06:02,003
[all laughing and singing]

861
01:06:03,838 --> 01:06:06,299
♪ As we go on ♪

862
01:06:06,341 --> 01:06:09,636
♪ we remember ♪

863
01:06:09,678 --> 01:06:16,393
♪ all the times
we shared together ♪

864
01:06:16,434 --> 01:06:19,312
♪ As our lives change ♪

865
01:06:20,230 --> 01:06:23,358
[all laughing]

866
01:06:24,234 --> 01:06:25,276
Cheers. Thank you.

867
01:06:31,991 --> 01:06:34,804
Yeah, having more women in...
in kitchens is definitely
changing something,

868
01:06:34,828 --> 01:06:39,165
but I think we can’t solve this
problem from just our side.

869
01:06:39,916 --> 01:06:42,043
Just having more women in
kitchens isn’t gonna do it.

870
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:47,549
You know, when you talk
about solving something it...

871
01:06:47,590 --> 01:06:51,428
there’s usually like a system,
you know, uh...

872
01:06:51,469 --> 01:06:56,683
that uhm... that is complex,
that needs to be addressed.

873
01:06:58,393 --> 01:07:01,271
Yeah, I would love to be able
to change that... that culture.

874
01:07:01,312 --> 01:07:02,397
I’m doing my best.

875
01:07:05,734 --> 01:07:09,487
[Suzanne] Let’s use these
to go into a mango crème,
but I want thicker.

876
01:07:11,698 --> 01:07:14,534
[Suzanne] Kitchens are not
diverse enough.

877
01:07:14,576 --> 01:07:21,041
My whole goal, my whole dream is
to offer training, and right now
the focus is women.

878
01:07:21,958 --> 01:07:26,046
I know that I can
only ask myself,

879
01:07:26,087 --> 01:07:30,425
what have I done today in order
to make this come about?

880
01:07:30,467 --> 01:07:31,718
This is personal for me.

881
01:07:32,510 --> 01:07:34,596
I’m sorry.

882
01:07:34,637 --> 01:07:37,307
It’s... It’s kind of like
the job that needs to be done,

883
01:07:37,349 --> 01:07:39,726
but we believe in you.
You can do it.

884
01:07:40,977 --> 01:07:43,539
It’s just sharpening
your knife skills.
That’s what it’s all about.

885
01:07:43,563 --> 01:07:46,608
All you think about is
brunoise, brunoise, brunoise.

886
01:07:54,032 --> 01:07:58,119
[Amanda] If there’s a woman at
the top, she’s probably had to
go through a lot to get there.

887
01:07:58,161 --> 01:08:03,291
And if they’re of my generation
or around my generation, my
feeling is that they, uhm...

888
01:08:04,167 --> 01:08:06,753
probably are nicer and they’re
trying to run a better kitchen

889
01:08:06,795 --> 01:08:08,963
‘cause they’ve known
what happened in the past.

890
01:08:09,005 --> 01:08:11,758
At the same time, I have heard
stories of female chefs
in the city

891
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:15,845
who aren’t that nice and who
aren’t that easy to work with,
so... you know.

892
01:08:15,887 --> 01:08:20,850
What I want and hope for
isn’t necessarily true.

893
01:08:20,892 --> 01:08:25,647
We will ruin our industry
if we don’t fix this problem.
We have to make it less macho.

894
01:08:25,689 --> 01:08:29,734
We have to start celebrating
uhm... good kitchens.

895
01:08:29,776 --> 01:08:33,321
Happy places to work
that are really supportive
of their workers.

896
01:09:09,983 --> 01:09:14,487
A restaurant is a way to show
to people that we love them.

897
01:09:23,038 --> 01:09:24,330
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